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We want to help you become the kind of man who can be a good husband." What kind of traits should women be looking for in a husband? I look back now and I think that God protected me from so much by just not letting me have a date.

These are very practical questions you can ask of someone fairly early on in a relationship in a non-threatening way and really get a picture of his character. The biggest danger of “soul mate-ism” is the idea that: "There’s one person out there for me, and if I can find this one person, then I’m guaranteed a happy marriage." Marriage is hard. Everyone in marriage will experience difficulty, because you’re uniting two sinners. Far better to go into it thinking, 'I have found the best possible mate that I can find given where I live, who I know and what I bring to the relationship. Even though it was so painful at the time to not have a date when everybody else did, I'm so thankful that I didn't come into my marriage with any relational baggage.

We’re both going into this knowing that we’re committed for life, that we’re both fallen and redeemed, and that at the foot at the Cross, we can make this work.' So lastly, what encouragement do you have for women who have never been kissed, never had a date and are growing weary of waiting? I'd never had a boyfriend until I met Steve [my husband]. The longer I waited, the more terrified I was that it would never happen. Start to pray boldly, passionately and intensely for the men who you know in your church or work.

The words aren't uttered loudly in many church circles.

They are hushed and spoken only between close friends.

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