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So while it looks easy to hook up with him in the short run, this is a long term complication. Being with Tony brings you closer to your ex, and I can’t help wondering if you’re not finished with your ex. I mean, if you and Tony become an item, your ex is going to be in your life because he’s Tony’s best friend.
He’ll be angry at himself and angry at you if he compromises his loyalty, eventually.
His possible involvement with you is going to compromise one of his best qualities -- loyalty -- to your ex, with whom he's friends.
Once you know what you want, understand how men think.